Financial Elder Abuse: Perception vs. Reality

Someday, You or Your Parents Could be at Risk

By PAUL TAGHIBAGI | Special to the Palisadian-Post

You may know victims of financial elder abuse. According to a new Wells Fargo elder needs survey, almost half of Americans do.

As you read or hear stories about seniors being financially exploited, you may think: Not me, I would never fall prey to that in my old age. Your parents? Same thing. They are too smart and too vigilant to be taken for a ride by a con artist or an unprincipled relative or caretaker.

This perception is only natural. When we are young, we never picture ourselves, or our parents, in decline. We are told 60 is the new 40, and 80 is the new 50. Perhaps so, but we may be overconfident in our ability to evade financial scams as we age.

Nearly 800 Americans aged 60 and older were asked if they believed senior citizens were vulnerable to financial abuse. Ninety-eight percent of the respondents said yes, but 81 percent were confident that it would never happen to them. Just 10 percent thought they were susceptible to such exploitation, and only 24 percent even worried about the possibility.

The surveyors also contacted nearly 800 Americans aged 45-59 with elderly parents, and 75 percent of these Gen Xers and baby boomers felt their moms and dads would never succumb to such fraud.

In short: Financial elder abuse might happen to other people someday, but not to us.

This assumption may be flawed—after all, half the people contacted said that they knew elders who had been financially exploited.

Any perception that strangers are committing most of these crimes may be equally unfounded. The Jewish Council for the Aging stated that 66 percent of financial elder abuse is carried out by family members, friends or trusted third parties.

What actions can be taken to try and shield your parents from such abuse? As a first step, you and your parents can meet with an estate-planning attorney to put a signed financial power of attorney in place (if one is absent). Should your mom or dad lose the capacity to make financial decisions on their own, this document can authorize you (or another family member) to make worthy decisions on their behalf.

There are also software programs, such as EverSafe, that are designed to pinpoint odd financial transactions for a household or business. Such activity is flagged, and a financial advocate for the person or business is then signaled.

You can also meet the bank or investment professional who works with your parent(s) and request that you become a trusted contact on their account. You can do this by filling out a form.

You may already be named as a trusted contact. Since February, the Financial Industry Regulatory Authority (FINRA) has required investment firms to ask their clients to provide the name and information of such persons, though clients do not have to comply with the request.

The financial services industry is taking further steps in this regard. In May, President Trump signed the Senior Safe Act into law.

This legislation, introduced by Sen. Susan Collins of Maine, guides banks and investment firms to train their financial professionals to spot and report what appears to be shady financial activity. To encourage such reporting, it gives them a degree of immunity from liability and breaches of privacy laws.

The bottom line: Act now to guard against the risk of elder financial abuse. It happens too often, and though it may seem improbable today, that may not be the case tomorrow—for your parents or you.

Paul Taghibagi may be reached at 310-712-2323, pt@seia.com or seia.com/bio/paul-taghibagi.