
Joan Binkley Byrnes, affectionately known as “Bink,” died Saturday, June 25, at St. John’s Hospital in Santa Monica after a short illness. A resident of Pacific Palisades for almost 50 years, Bink was born in Hamilton, Ontario, Canada, the daughter of Rhoda and father E.G. Binkley, who was founding partner of the law firm Langs and Binkley. She attended Strathallen School and McMaster University in Hamilton, and during World War II drove ambulances for the Canadian Red Cross. She remained a loyal subject of the Queen (whom she met many times over the years), and was a proud and devoted Canadian all her life. In 1948, Bink married fellow Hamiltonian Daniel Byrnes, and moved with him to Washington, D.C., while he completed law studies at Georgetown University. Their children Rebecca, Bryant, and Binkley were born there, and Bink began a lifelong commitment to volunteer service as a docent at the National Gallery of Art, spending many wonderful years enjoying the city and making friendships which lasted throughout her life. In 1957, Dan left the Department of the Navy for North American Aviation, and he and Bink moved to California. Bink had been apprehensive about moving so far from her family and friends and what she considered civilization, but immediately found herself at home in Pacific Palisades, creating a web of friendships and associations which grew ever wider over the years. They first lived on Swarthmore, where she found on their block a community of kindred spirits and the perfect place over the next 20 years to raise their children, sending them to Palisades Elementary and St. Matthew’s School. She soon knew every salesperson in the village by name, and spent countless contented hours walking along the bluffs. In 1976, Dan and Bink moved to the house she so loved on Frontera in the Huntington Palisades, in which she lived until her death. When she moved to the Palisades, Bink began her local community service by becoming a member of the boards of the UCLA Art Council and the UCLA Medical Center Auxiliary, and resumed with pleasure her activity with the Los Angeles Junior League. Bink’s association with the Parish of St. Matthew grew steadily into an enormously rich and connected relationship. Her presence could be felt there in a myriad of ways, from her years as director of the Wedding Guild and member of the Altar Guild, her weekly assistance at the Thrift Shop (from which she rarely came away empty-handed), and her devotion to the clergy and staff, which extended to placing figures of angels in the meeting room to ensure that the clergy had sufficient divine inspiration as they guided the affairs of the parish. Bink’s connection to St. Matthew’s led to her commitment to the Friends of Neighborhood Youth Association, an organization benefiting at-risk youth, on whose board she served for many years. One of her proudest moments was being honored with the NYA Community Service Volunteer Award in 2004 along with two dear friends. She was also a passionate advocate for the National Cathedral in Washington, D.C., serving as long-term regional co-chair and relishing her trips to the annual meetings. Bink’s grandchildren lovingly called her “Grand,” which is an apt description of her enormous capacity for living life to the fullest. Bink was unique. She was witty, elegant, an avid reader, stylish, kind, full of verve and flair, and was never seen without her trademark pearls and often a fetching hat. She had a marvelous talent for making friends everywhere she went. “I only know her from the shop and I was always so happy to see her walk through the door,” recalls Cindy Ellis, founder and co-owner of The Nest Egg on Sunset. “I thought of her as a friend, not just a customer. This is so much of what the Palisades is all about. We’d sit in my British Windsor chairs and talk about gardens, beautiful interior designs and fabulous fashions.” Bink loved all things British (her collection of English royalty memorabilia is renowned), and her annual trips with Dan to stay with friends in London (including some travel on the QE II and the Concorde) provided not only Queen sightings but also glorious trips to Harrod’s, Liberty’s, Ascot and Parliament. Devoted to her family, Bink was an extraordinary wife, mother, and grandmother. She will be deeply missed by Daniel, her husband of 57 years; her daughter Rebecca (husband Wayne Brazil) of Lafayette, California; her sons Bryant ( wife Mary) of Berkeley), and Binkley (wife Tina) of Westchester; grandchildren Barclay, Breen, Samantha, Farren, Kyle, and Amelia, and a multitude of friends. A memorial service will be held at 4 p.m. today June 30, at St. Matthew’s Episcopal Church, 1031 Bienveneda Avenue, Pacific Palisades. In place of flowers, donations may be made in Bink’s memory to the Friends of the Neighborhood Youth Association, 1016 Pleasant View Ave., Venice, CA 90291.
